Say you can't attend a wedding without making it worse

Write regrets for a wedding or big event I can't attend.

Event: [details]
Why (high level): [optional]
Gift or contribution: [yes/no / later]
How close we are: [details]

Ask me up to 3 short questions first if anything important is missing. Wait for my answers.

Then:
1. A warm sendable regrets message.
2. A gift-note line if relevant.
3. Over-explaining to cut.
4. A later 'thinking of you on the day' text.

Only use what I've told you, leave blanks for anything I haven't given, and don't invent facts, quotes or what the other person thinks. Give a sendable version and, when I've pasted a vent, a one-line note on what you left out and why. This is help with wording, not legal advice. UK English.

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