Plan a funeral or memorial without drowning in admin

Help me plan a funeral or memorial.

What's already decided: [burial/cremation, venue, nothing yet]
Who's involved in decisions: [names]
Faith or tone: [details]
Budget band: [rough]
Wishes the person left: [any]

Ask me up to 3 short questions first if anything important is missing. Wait for my answers.

Then:
1. An ordered checklist for the next 14 days.
2. Questions for the funeral director.
3. A simple order of service outline.
4. Roles to delegate.
5. Point me to GOV.UK after-a-death guidance for the admin side, and to Cruse 0808 808 1677 or Samaritans 116 123 for emotional support.

Only use what I've told you, leave blanks for anything I haven't given, and don't invent facts, diagnoses or legal outcomes. This is help with wording and planning, not legal, medical or counselling advice; point me to GOV.UK, Citizens Advice, NSPCC (0808 800 5000), Childline (0800 1111), Samaritans (116 123) or Refuge/National Domestic Abuse Helpline (0808 2000 247) where that fits, and call 999 if anyone is in immediate danger. UK English.

For GOV.UK what to do after someone dies, use web search and name the page you used. If it doesn't search on its own, open View all tools and choose Search.

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