Make a clear request to a family member without a guilt fog

Write a clear request to a family member.

Ask: [specific]
Who: [relationship]
Deadline: [date]
Past friction if relevant: [optional — for what to leave out]
Channel: [text / call opener]

Ask me up to 3 short questions first if anything important is missing. Wait for my answers.

Then:
1. A kind specific sendable ask.
2. History and guilt to leave out.
3. An easy-out for them.
4. A follow-up if they ignore it.

Only use what I've told you, leave blanks for anything I haven't given, and don't invent facts, quotes or what the other person thinks. Give a sendable version and, when I've pasted a vent, a one-line note on what you left out and why. This is help with wording, not legal advice. UK English.

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