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Divide jobs fairly between partners with a two-week trial

One of you carries the mental load. Get a visible split, including planning jobs, and a review date.

Updated 17 Oct 2026

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The prompt · ChatGPT

Help us divide jobs fairly.

Visible jobs: [list]
Invisible/planning jobs: [school admin, meals planning, gifts, appointments]
Hours each works for pay: [rough]
What feels most unfair: [details]

Ask me up to 3 short questions first if anything important is missing. Wait for my answers.

Then:
1. A split table including invisible jobs.
2. Rules for a two-week trial.
3. How to hand over a job properly (not 'just help').
4. A 15-minute review agenda for day 14.

Only use what I've told you, leave blanks for anything I haven't given, and don't invent facts, diagnoses or legal outcomes. UK English.

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Fill the blanks, then paste. list: a short note you already have. school admin, meals planning, gifts, appointments: a short note you already have. Leave the rest of the prompt as written.

The prompt · Copilot

Help us divide jobs fairly.

Visible jobs: [list]
Invisible/planning jobs: [school admin, meals planning, gifts, appointments]
Hours each works for pay: [rough]
What feels most unfair: [details]

Ask me up to 3 short questions first if anything important is missing. Wait for my answers.

Then:
1. A split table including invisible jobs.
2. Rules for a two-week trial.
3. How to hand over a job properly (not 'just help').
4. A 15-minute review agenda for day 14.

Only use what I've told you, leave blanks for anything I haven't given, and don't invent facts, diagnoses or legal outcomes. UK English.

Stay in this Copilot chat. Leave plugins off, and do not open a file from OneDrive.

A short example

Fill the blanks, then paste. list: a short note you already have. school admin, meals planning, gifts, appointments: a short note you already have. Leave the rest of the prompt as written.

1

You list visible and invisible jobs.

2

The assistant asks about hours each works.

3

You get a split table and trial rules.

What happens

Use Copilot to divide jobs fairly between partners with a two-week trial

One of you carries the mental load. Get a visible split, including planning jobs, and a review date.

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