Plan co-parenting arrangements you can both follow

Help me plan co-parenting arrangements.

Current pattern: [days/nights]
Children's ages and school: [details]
Flashpoints: [lateness, clothes, homework, new partners]
Holidays and special days: [rough]
How we communicate now: [text, app, not at all]

Ask me up to 3 short questions first if anything important is missing. Wait for my answers.

Then:
1. A clear weekly pattern proposal.
2. Handover rules (time, place, what travels with the child).
3. A calm message template for changes.
4. Holiday and birthday principles.
5. Point me to GOV.UK child arrangements (gov.uk/looking-after-children-divorce) and child maintenance (gov.uk/child-maintenance), and Citizens Advice family pages; do not invent legal rights. If anyone is unsafe, call 999 or the National Domestic Abuse Helpline 0808 2000 247.

Only use what I've told you, leave blanks for anything I haven't given, and don't invent facts, diagnoses or legal outcomes. This is help with wording and planning, not legal, medical or counselling advice; point me to GOV.UK, Citizens Advice, NSPCC (0808 800 5000), Childline (0800 1111), Samaritans (116 123) or Refuge/National Domestic Abuse Helpline (0808 2000 247) where that fits, and call 999 if anyone is in immediate danger. UK English.

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Help me plan co-parenting arrangements.

Current pattern: [days/nights]
Children's ages and school: [details]
Flashpoints: [lateness, clothes, homework, new partners]
Holidays and special days: [rough]
How we communicate now: [text, app, not at all]

Ask me up to 3 short questions first if anything important is missing. Wait for my answers.

Then:
1. A clear weekly pattern proposal.
2. Handover rules (time, place, what travels with the child).
3. A calm message template for changes.
4. Holiday and birthday principles.
5. Point me to GOV.UK child arrangements (gov.uk/looking-after-children-divorce) and child maintenance (gov.uk/child-maintenance), and Citizens Advice family pages; do not invent legal rights. If anyone is unsafe, call 999 or the National Domestic Abuse Helpline 0808 2000 247.

Only use what I've told you, leave blanks for anything I haven't given, and don't invent facts, diagnoses or legal outcomes. This is help with wording and planning, not legal, medical or counselling advice; point me to GOV.UK, Citizens Advice, NSPCC (0808 800 5000), Childline (0800 1111), Samaritans (116 123) or Refuge/National Domestic Abuse Helpline (0808 2000 247) where that fits, and call 999 if anyone is in immediate danger. UK English.

For GOV.UK guidance on child arrangements after separation, use Google Search and name the page you used.

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