Reconnect with an old friend without making it awkward

Help me reconnect with an old friend.

How we know each other: [details]
How long since we spoke: [rough]
Why we drifted: [if known]
What I'd like: [coffee, catch-up text, unclear]

Ask me up to 3 short questions first if anything important is missing. Wait for my answers.

Then:
1. Two short message options.
2. A follow-up if they reply warmly.
3. What to do if they don't reply.
4. One shared memory line I can use if I've given one.

Only use what I've told you, leave blanks for anything I haven't given, and don't invent facts, diagnoses or legal outcomes. UK English.

Stay in this ChatGPT chat. Do not turn on apps or connectors, and do not use memory from another chat.